Helping a Friend or Neighbor Cope with Loss

Published: April 18, 2021

Before the Funeral

1. Offer to notify his/her family and friends about funeral arrangements.

2. House-sit to prevent burglaries during the funeral and visitations.

3. Help answer phones and greet visitors.

4. Keep a record of everyone who calls, visits and has been contacted.

5. Help coordinate food and drink supply.

6. Offer to pick up friends and family at the airport and to arrange accommodations.

7. Offer to provide transportation for out of town visitors.

8. Help keep the house clean and dishes washed.

After the Funeral

1. Prepare or provide dinner on a day that is mutally acceptable.

2. Do step 1 every week for two or three months.

3. Offer to help with the garden such as watering, mowing or pruning.

4. Feed and exercise pets, if any.

5. Write notes offering encouragement and support.

6. Offer to drive or accompany him/her to the cemetery regularly.

7. Offer to house sit so he/she can get away or vist family out of town.

8. Make a weekly run to the supermarket, laundry, or cleaners.

9. Help with the Thank You notes and or other correspondence.

10. Anticipate difficult periods such as anniversaries, birthdays, holidays, and the day of the death.

11. Always mention the deceased by name and encourage reminiscing.

Above all, just listening and your concern and presence will help.

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